The honeymoon phase is just the beginning.
Of course, that’s easier said than done, because no two relationships are the same.
However, most couples will experience similar stages of a relationship as their time together progresses.
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These stages might look slightly different for ethically non-monogamous people or those who create their own relationship structures.
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Read on for an expert’s perspective on how a relationship can naturally progress.
The beginning of a new relationship is exhilarating.
You’re connecting with someone you find exciting and who finds you exciting.
There is so much anticipation, curiosity, nervousness, and wonder.
During this relationship stage, it’s crucial not to make any big decisions (e.g.
moving in together, getting engaged, etc.).
Don’t get me wrong: The honeymoon phase is fun, and it should be!
Here’s the fun thing about the honeymoon phase: There’s actually science behind it.
During this relationship stage,dopamine, serotonin, and adrenaline increase, producing that telltalefeeling of attraction.
Back-to-Reality Phase: 1-2 Years
Personally, I love this phase.
Sometimes you might just be looking for a whirlwind romance and not a full-blown relationship.
However, if youarelooking for something longer-term, this stage of a relationship is vital to its progression.
Be vulnerable, honest, and ask your partner questions.
Listen with intent and share with complete transparency.
This stage sets the foundation, in many ways, for the rest of your relationship.
It’s all out there: You are fully emotionally in the nude.
At this point, you know everything about each other.
I understand why people do this, 100 percent.
Sure, there are always some surprises because we’re all ever-evolving human beings.
But there are a lot less than you likely experienced in the first few phases of a relationship.
The relationship has likely developed its own language for navigating the world together.
Vasopressin plays an important role in social behavior, sexual motivation, pairing/bonding, and stress response.
When you have an empty cup, it’s really hard to pour into your relationship.
These four are arguably the biggest, most notable relationship stages that happen in a longer-term relationship.
