It’s A Pleasure
I know he sometimes just wants me time, but still.
Like, how do you keep from having the anxious feeling that they arent responding on purpose?
I know sometimes he just wants me time, but still.
And most of those things come down to distracting yourself.
Lean into every hobby youve ever had.
Buy a blow torch and learn how to make creme brulee.
Learn how to throw in the accents on creme brulee.
Volunteer at a farm and wake up to do baby goat nighttime bottle feedings.
Go to bingo at the VFW.
However, I would like to gently posit that the threshold for over-texting is ill-defined and idiosyncratic.
Still, I love her for who she is and sometimes my phone is just on Do Not Disturb.
We both had to learn each others styles, though.
I just dont communicate that way.
He might think that your level of seriousness doesnt warrant lots o texts from the text man.
Think about the rest of this guys actions outside of this.
In other words, why do you believe his text style connotes a lack of interest?
This could be his weak spot, or it could be indicative of mismatched expectations.
Its just a symptom.
One solution is to ask him to clarify.
you might share what would make you feel more secure.
It can be hard to negotiate needs in casual relationships.
If that is the case, its time to figure out if thats a deal-breaker for you.
Be wary of adopting his boundaries and desires simply to keep him around.
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