Ive noticed my partner cant hear very well, both at home and when were out.
When I indicate concern, he just says, Youre mumbling.
How can I convince him to get tested?
Id begin by asking your partner if he hears other people clearly.
There are some people who really do mumble or are what I call low talkers.
And sometimes at home, we attempt to talk to someone in another room and they arent listening.
Its a two-way street.
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I suggest you try engaging intentionally.
By that, I mean to look your partner in the eyes and be clear with your message.
This is a technique my wife and I use.
For example, shell say Adam, I have something important to tell you.
Now shes got my attention and continues.
We have dinner tomorrow night at 7 p.m. You cannot be late.
Ill say, All right.
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On the other hand, your partner might very well behard of hearing.
About 1 in 3 people ages 65 to 74 and nearly half of those over 75 have diminished hearing.
The reason some people get angry when you ask about their hearing is because theyre embarrassed.
They feel like this is them getting older.
So its important to approach your partner in a context that he might appreciate.
However, Im really worried about you in the office.
God forbid you miss something.
Hearing testsare really important because we know for a fact that people who cant hear well often become disengaged.
Lack of hearing can turn into isolation.
