His wife, Eva Gomez, 57, served six years in the Army Reserve.

Why they served

Gumersindo:I was born in Puerto Rico.

In January 1966, my mother shipped me to New York City to some family members.

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I started working in a factory, making slippers.

I used to walk down 42nd Street because they had cheap hamburgers, two for a quarter.

I started watching the guys in uniform, and I started liking the uniform itself.

The Gomez family around a table

I decided to join the Army, not even really knowing there was a war going on.

I went to basic and advanced training at Fort Dix, New Jersey.

From there I went to Vietnam.

Gumersindo Gomez, right, in 1983, and his son Giovanni, left, in 1989, both served in the Army.

I went to war.

So I was always competing to see what a man could do that I could not.

I ended up training under one of the companies of which Gumersindo was the senior drill sergeant.

Thats how I met my husband!

Now we have a big family, and our grandson has joined the military.

If our kids and grandkids make that decision, we respect that.

You cant live your life with fear.

Tyler:For me, it started in high school.

I wasnt doing well.

I got in trouble my senior year, and I couldnt play football.

One day I was playing video games and my mom said, Get dressed.

We got to go somewhere.

I asked, Where?

She said, Youll see when we get there.

It was snowing, and we came up in the car.

I saw the sign: Armed Forces Recruitment Center.

I was, like, Oh, God!