A dating app arch nemesis is the person whos been lurking amongst your potential matches for literal years.

You see them so often that, over time, you start to develop a sort of dysfunctional relationship.

Would they rather be single than swipe right?

What is a dating app arch nemesis?

Are they a bot?

Are they ignoring you on purpose?

Just like that, you bristle with annoyance and at theidea of dating appsin general.

What is a dating app arch nemesis?

What Is A Dating App Arch Nemesis?

On TikTok, people have been talking about the dating app arch nemesis and its so relatable.

This is someone who Ive matched with and rematched with several times.

What happens when you meet your dating app arch nemesis?

I want to say upwards of ten times.

Youve found your Wesley.

It does seem like nemeses can take many forms, but it almost always ends in disappointment.

Do We All Have A Dating App Arch Nemesis?

Theresa says her nemesis has since updated his photos torefresh his profile.

It looks like he had fun on his backpacking trip through southeast Asia, she tells Bustle.

Then theres Marianne*, 33, who says she often sees the same faces over and over again.

Sometimes Ive relented and matched just to see what Hinge is all about, she tells Bustle.

100% of the time the conversation goes nowhere and I feel justified in having not matched with them.

Like, patch your pics, she tells Bustle.

Youve been on here forever!

*Names have been changed.