Web Culture
Forget Google or LinkedIn.
This is the new vetting system.
These could begreen flags and good signs, but you have to remember that the average internetsleuthing seshisnt foolproof.
And no, this isnt creepy behavior.
Thats the nitty gritty info that likely reveals their likes, dislikes and ultimately who they truly are.
While youre poking around, TikTokers also suggest taking note of theirfollowing and follower count.
Should You Go On The Date Anyway?
Armed with your newfound knowledge, she recommendsasking more questionsto clarify or quell any concerns you might have.
Ask [questions like] What key in of people do you hang out with?
What are your values?
What are some things that you like to do?
And see where it goes from there, she says.
If you like their answers that might mean more to you than what you saw on social media.
If something feels like a red flag or a dealbreaker, its likely because it is.
Source:
Karina Daves, relationship coach
