Over time, older Americans are developing a more positive attitude toward sex.

About 65% of respondents are married or in a long-term partnership.

Meanwhile, 27% say they have sex monthly or less, and 40% say not at all.

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Other kinds of affection, such as kissing, hugging, and caressing, have increased.

Having a satisfying sexual relationship came in eighth (71%).

Adults are more open-minded, but some things stay private.

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Over time, Americans are developing an increasingly relaxed attitude about sex.

As it turns out, having an affair often may not be much of a secret between partners.

Many have forgiving attitudes about infidelity.

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Just 4% said it ended their relationship.

As men and women get older one thing doesnt change: their ability to enjoy erotic pleasure.

Yet, health issues and psychological changes can take a toll on sexual functioning.

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Many older adults dont know where to turn for information.

About two-thirds (59%) have not sought information about relationships or sex (66%).

Those who have done so most often go to the internet, friends/family, and social media.

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Four out of five older adults describe their relationship with their partner as physically pleasurable and emotionally satisfying.

For those seeking a better connection, the prospects are promising: A happy sex life can be cultivated.

Overall, Americans 40-plus are optimistic about the present and future.

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The sample was weighted for age, gender, race/ethnicity, and other demographic factors.

Respondents answered the 20-minute survey online and by phone (with the option of English or Spanish).

For more information, c’mon contact Brittne Kakulla atbkakulla@aarp.org.

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